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"He isn't trying; he's just
lazy."
“She’s just a ‘late-bloomer.’”
"He lacks motivation."
Unfortunately, the above comments are often made
by individuals who do not know how to help this misunderstood
population. Most of these students have average to
extremely high intellectual abilities but have one
or more deficiencies that keep them from being successful
in the classroom. They often withdraw and do not answer
questions for fear of being wrong. They sometimes
become the “class clown” to cover for
their feelings of inadequacy. While many of these
students either do no meet the criteria for specialized
help or do not benefit from the services provided,
they also do not find success in the regular classroom
setting. Their intelligence allows them to recognize
their lack of success, so they often become frustrated
and their self-esteem begins to suffer. Even with
the best of family environments, many of these students
begin to look for acceptance in undesirable ways and
sometimes find themselves in difficult situations
such as drug addiction, gangs, or teen pregnancy.
While every individual is unique in his/her strengths
and abilities, the heartache for the student with
learning disabilities and his/her parents is the same.
Often frustration from lack of knowledge of how to
deal with the learning disabled child creates tension
in the home and in relationships. By the time most
parents bring their child to The Bedford School, they
have often pursued many avenues of help for their
child in the both public and private sector. One of
the benefits of placing a child in The Bedford School,
aside from the specific help for the child, is that
the program helps families as parents begin to see
their children succeed, and the stress gradually diminishes.
What happens
to students after they leave Bedford?
When students leave Bedford, they are equipped with
better academic and organizational skills, special
techniques to help them become independent learners,
and self-advocacy skills. Some find continued success
in public high school, while others do well in a private
school setting. Many of these students pursue a post
high school education, while others find success in
various work settings. An investment of time or resources
in the life of the child with learning disabilities
comes back with great interest.
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